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A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (More on Alcoholism).

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (More on Alcoholism). This chapter starts out by saying; “Most of us have been unwilling to admit we were real alcoholics. No person likes to think he is bodily and mentally different from his fellow.” So who among is in a rush to say we are different than everyone else? Especially when it comes to drinking and especially if we have built our life around it. What step is in this chapter? The first page of this chapter describes the first step of the 12 step program. “We learned that we…

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (There is a Solution).

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (There is a Solution). Chapter 2 starts out: “We, of ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, know thousands of men and women who were once just as hopeless as Bill (from chapter 1). Nearly all have recovered. They have solved the drink problem”. This chapter is an overview of the program that Bill was given by his friend who visited him and sat at his kitchen table, sober! This was shocking to Bill, as his friend was just as bad a drunk as he was. Who are the members of AA? What type of people…

A little ditty on the “Big Book” of Alcoholics Anonymous (Bills Story).

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (Bills Story). Why is Bill’s story the first chapter? Yes, Bills’ story is the first chapter following the doctors opinion. So it would seem that the doctor’s opinion is pretty important, then followed by Bills story, which is called Chapter 1. I cannot make any absolute confirmation to why Bills story was the first chapter, except to say that Bill was in fact the main author of the book, with much input from the original approximately one hundred members. Also Bills story is very much about identification for the reader. This…

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (The doctors opinion).

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous (The doctors opinion). Who was the doctor that wrote this? William D. Silkworth, M.D. was Director of the Charles B. Towns Hospital for Drug and Alcohol Addictions in New York City, where he had treated, one of the founding members of AA, Bill W. several times before and was asked to write a letter on their behalf. Because of what he had seen in Bill and the few men that soon followed, the doctor was very happy to write a positive recommendation to put in their book. Why was this doctor’s…

A little ditty on the “Big Book” , Alcoholics Anonymous. (Where did it come from?)

A little ditty on the “Big Book”, Alcoholics Anonymous. (Where did it come from?) When and how did Alcoholics Anonymous come about? Alcoholics Anonymous was founded on June 10, 1935. This was the date of the second member, Dr Bob S’ last drink. His sobriety began a short time after a meeting with Bill W., the first founding member of AA, who at that time had six months without a drink. Bill was on a business trip that ended poorly. While pacing the hotel lobby Bill was tempted by the thought of going into the bar and maybe make new…

Step Twelve: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Step Twelve: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs. The final step suggests a result from taking the previous eleven, that being a spiritual experience. Then attempting to take this experience out to other sufferers and finally to practice this in all our relationships and areas of our lives. What is a spiritual awakening? One definition is to awaken the spirit. For many, who have practiced these steps over time it is the release from the prison of the…

Step Seven: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

Step Seven: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. After you have honestly expressed willingness to have the negative items from your inventory removed in Step 6, you are ready to give them away in Step7. What do they mean humbly asked Him? To ”humbly ask” is a natural move after taking step 6 and to acknowledge that we cannot remove these shortcomings of our own power. We are approaching this step right sized. There is no humiliation here, only humility, which is a positive attitude towards our self and our lives. When I complete this step will I no…

Step Six: Were entirely ready to have God remove all of these defects of character.

Step Six: Were entirely ready to have God remove all of these defects of character. After sharing your inventory in step 5 it is now time to use what I like to call “the power steps” , 6 and 7 , to get rid of these objectionable items. Step 6 is about drawing out the willingness to give them up. Once again willingness is the key. When you can look back and see that you were given freedom from alcohol/drugs or whatever the obsession, maybe now you can believe that God can take the defects of character as well. If…

Step One: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol – that our lives had become unmanageable.

Step One: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol – that our lives had become unmanageable. Again the steps are being used for just about any compulsion you could think of. For simplicity we will mostly focus on the original 12 step program, Alcoholics Anonymous. If I am powerless over something, doesn’t that mean there is nothing I can do about it? Yes. That’s right. If you are an Alcoholic (powerless over alcohol) or an addict (powerless over drugs) or for that matter in many cases powerless over both, this is acknowledging that once you start to drink or use…

What are the Twelve Steps?

There is a good chance you have heard them mentioned before. Especially if this is not your first time in treatment. If your counselor suggests that when you  leave treatment you should check out a support group, it is very likely the steps will be a part of that group. Who put the 12 steps together? As a short introduction let me give you a little background on the 12 steps.  In the mid 1930’s , an alcoholic stock broker and a physician who could not stay stopped, found a way to stay sober together. Where can the steps be…